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Wife of a factory in the friends we had dinner at the time have been complaining about. Complained to the treatment plant, said their actions than others, less wages than others. Responsible unfair to her (their factories only three-tier hierarchy, the boss -- for -- staff). At the same time we complain to eat dinner together when has happened before.
So this time, I mentioned to her a number of suggestions : "directly to the boss."
She said : "No, boss listens to what the Master (her manager), they are so ah, simply Dangshazi ..."( of staff continued to complain)
I interrupted her : "Are you looking for direct talks with them two 嘛. Things clearly, as far as I know, Many bosses do not want to run things themselves, also hope to have 12 more active employees to jump out of it. Perhaps you will also be affected by reuse diploma. "
She said : "useless. You do not know their bosses more black ... "
I have heard her complain about a while, though they have a very bad mood, I can not even come back to work one day listening to people complain, did the same thing when the wallet and also when the punching bag.
So I said : "In the past, I have encountered very bad bosses, and this is only my suggestion, Finally your own size up situation and act accordingly. "
Mean we do not want to continue with this topic.
Yet here are two of the three is a woman. They are depressed woman (his wife were depressed baby is not the day to day things. That is considered a rare heart a good situation).
So, how long did not like the topic up again, grew up in the mountains, I can not tolerate high temperatures (we eat in the open, the day is no wind) also complained, Finally, I hollered, and then hurriedly finished, Wallace went etc. ... do not know their own remarks have hurt them ...
Of course, that the above process that not so simple in a few words. At that time, my heart has been quite accurate in the sense that there will inevitably reveal tone tired, even with ironic point. I therefore harmful to their two (not work out the wife of the friend's experience is his empathy).
The next day, his wife broke out, deprived of my husband that night as a fundamental right, The worst thing is possible that this right should be deprived afterwards. I may be depressed.
So I think : there is no way less complain? ？? ！! ！!
I thought about it a long time ago on this issue.
My conclusion is : one, and a sense of normalcy. 2, struggled.Although there are many important things, but for us, for this generation of people, these two are the most lacking.
Only human in the face of adversity to maintain a sense of balance in order to calm analysis of the status quo. Know how to do the next step. About a mentality has not been complained of.
Like to make it clear that how they do that, then the next is the need to struggle, this era, pressure from various quarters huge grassroots is not a fight can be the make it.
I put hard for dealers to explain :
Struggle : is willing to make efforts, and be able to reasonably use their limited time, make the most effective efforts -- Antonyms : lazy.
Bo dare : the courage to give up some things, dare to challenge all the possibilities, echoing the views of others, not timid, not to give up hope. In fact, this is a form of gambling, but that such gambling odds themselves can control. -- Of course, this does not mean blindly confident, it will not understand the bet.
Take my wife's friends as an example. If she really said that she do more things than others, but she is doing things the others do not. Well, first she has been fighting the capital. Because she has the bargaining chips. She Bo, but she is : "just thrown out the idea of Bo." She lost a word directly to her master : "I resigned from!" bosses and master her stay, she left the sentence : "Well, I have to leave, 300 pay rise. Otherwise, I walk. "bosses silent ...
Why silent? This boss reluctant to 300, while, then the factories have no sense hanging around. I think there is probably a. Bosses and chefs feel they are coerced, a bad mood. ——-- I guess it is the presence of many friends who said the surface. Said this privately bosses are still out of sorts, not to mention in public? Coupled with her work very FBS. Finally ... she could only resign.
And this is held to blame? Strange social injustice? Blame the boss selfish? That strange friends do not know the ways of the world?
I understand only part of the story, so I do not know whom to blame. I only know that around us, there are many things buried for a long time in the primaries, a very long time to happen. And the method of handling things (for most people is interpersonal) badly on the big difference.
That silent prayer for a friend, I hope that she soon found better jobs.
